Chapter 41. The perfect man

The perfect man gets home early, puts his kids to bed, reads them a story, the perfect man likes veggies and taking walks at the park. He has a gentle word when you get home tired, he offers you a massage when you feel restless about work. This man knows how to eat, how to take his time before speaking, how to dress and how to drink. He has a way with words and a witty sense of humor. You do not have to talk about everything that you are doing because he just knows what you are up to. You do not have to ask what he likes or feels like doing because you just know that he will feel pretty much just like you do.

The perfect man does not go over the speed limit when the kids are in the car, he books his vacation and tickets to events well in advance. He creates spread sheets to calculate all the expenses and optimizes everything effortlessly, which gives you peace of mind and a wider budget. He never pays late fees and checks the bank and credit cards statements often just to verify charges, not to control how much you spend on Aveda products. He refinances, he negotiates fees with suppliers and actually uses the credit card rewards before they expire. He is liked by others and does well at work. Like him, his life is perfect, his friends are perfect for the most part and his family is as perfect as it gets.

He never watches football games at home without asking if you are ok with it because being the sensible man that he is, he understands that you might feel like watching something else. He never looks at other women other than his own and if he does, he is on his own and simply imagines the possibility of having something different than what he has. Then he remembers what he has and he gets back on track.

He remembers your birthday, your anniversary and the day of your first date. He sends your flowers to the office for no reason and shows up at work to take you to lunch. He is there to support you emotionally and financially when and if needed and likes to see you smile. He will go out of his way just to see you smile.

The perfect man will go way out of his way to see you smile.



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